Wind, Sand and Burgers

28 02 2009

Apparently windy season has arrived here. It gusts all the time. This is good in its own way because it dries out the mud as the last of the snow continues to melt (and I sincerely hope we’re past the big snowstorms). But the wind here really blows.

It’s funny, it seems that there is at least one thing for each season that makes it not-quite-enjoyable to be outside here. If it’s spring, it would be gorgeous out, except that it’s raining, so you’ll get soaked and muddy. If it’s summer, it would be gorgeous out, except there are so many buffalo gnats you’ll get eaten alive. If it’s autumn, there are still buffalo gnats and now it’s also raining again. If it’s winter, you’re getting snowed on and you’re freezing. And for that magical couple of weeks in February and March when the snow seems to have stopped, it’s not raining yet, and the buffalo gnats are not yet in proliferation — the wind is blowing incessantly.

We have, for the most part, made quite an effort to enjoy the outdoors here in spite of the minor inconveniences that each season brings. It really is beautiful here — albeit, always with an “except for.” I’m looking forward to the temperature going up a bit so we can go exploring again in Cibola National Forest, which is literally right next door. And even though the rain does cause some inconveniences, it really is quite a thrill when it rains here.

This past Thursday, we went with Gabe and Beka Anast’s family to Red Rock State Park (just barely outside of town) where there is a large sand dune. The wind died down enough for us to enjoy ourselves for about an hour. I climbed all the way to the top, which was no small feat as it’s a very tall and extremely steep incline with no solid foothold. You stop climbing, you start sliding down, so you have to stay in constant climbing motion, kind of like a stair-climbing exercise machine. The kids managed this much easier, but then again, they don’t weigh 190 pounds. We got a little sandblasted on the way back out, but it’s definitely a place we’ll go back to visit again soon, perhaps when the wind has lessened.

Any physical exercise from which I might have benefitted at the sand dune was promptly cancelled out afterward. Gabe, Beka, Liesl and I then took the kids (that’s nine children between our two families) to Blake’s Lotaburger, a diner chain that’s fairly prolific across New Mexico. Their food is delicious. Think “burger-the-way-burger-should-taste.” Not quite as good as, say, In-N-Out, but reasonably close to it, and a major step up from the usual fast food joints. For a Colorado comparison, I would put Blake’s in the same category as maybe a Griff’s, or Jim’s Burger Haven. Anyway, my Lotaburger with Cheese and Bacon would probably take more than a trek up the dune to work off. But hey, it’s become quite rare for us to eat food like that these days. We had a great time.

So there’s our week. Wind, sand and burgers. I think that just about sums it up.





Oscars

22 02 2009

Now that my Oscars contest has closed, I’m posting my own predictions, as well as the consensus of my readers. We’re actually in agreement on everything except the first one.

Best Actor
Rob says: Sean Penn
Rob’s readers say: Mickey Rourke
This one’s tough. I know Mickey Rourke is the favorite to win, and I would like to think he’ll pull it off, but I have a feeling this one might go to Sean Penn. I think it might be, in part, Hollywood’s response to California’s passing of Proposition 8.

Best Supporting Actor
Rob says: Heath Ledger
Rob’s readers say: Heath Ledger
It would be so unbelievably unthinkable for Heath Ledger NOT to win. Only one of my readers dared to break from the pack and pick Philip Seymour Hoffman. While I think the performances of the other nominees in this category are win-worthy, Hollywood will give this to Ledger as its way of saying goodbye, celebrating his life, and mourning all that could have been.

Best Actress
Rob says: Kate Winslet
Rob’s readers say: Kate Winslet
I am really tempted to go with Meryl Streep in this category. If Winslet weren’t nominated, Streep would win for sure. Honestly, Winslet is nominated for the wrong movie, but I think Hollywood is so intent on seeing her finally win that this will be the time. Meryl’s kind of done herself in by acknowledging too often that she gets nominated but never wins, and I don’t think a majority will break from the pack.

Best Supporting Actress
Rob says: Penelope Cruz
Rob’s readers say: Penelope Cruz
I’d like to see Viola Davis take this, but I think Hollywood is betting that her best performances are yet to come. Penelope Cruz is a pretty solid bet.

Best Animated Feature
Rob says: WALL-E
Rob’s readers say: WALL-E
I thought this was going to be unanimous, but one last-minute entry chose Kung Fu Panda. I don’t think there’s a chance in the world that WALL-E would NOT win this category. Critics agreed that, animated or not, this was simply a great movie. This might be the only category it wins, but it will definitely win this one.

Best Art Direction
Rob says: The Curious Case of Benjamin Button
Rob’s readers say: The Curious Case of Benjamin Button
I’m tempted to go with Revolutionary Road. Enough people feel like it should have been nominated in different categories, which could potentially net it a win here, but Benjamin Button has a large following. People know it will lose out to Slumdog Millionaire in the big categories, so I think they’ll want to make sure it takes this category.

Best Cinematography
Rob says: Slumdog Millionaire
Rob’s readers say: Slumdog Millionaire
I find it very unlikely that any of the other contenders can beat out Slumdog here. If anyone does, it will be Benjamin Button.

Best Costume Design
Rob says: The Duchess
Rob’s readers say: The Duchess
It’s the only nominee with costumes that are jaw-droppingly good. Benjamin Button will win Makeup and Visual Effects, so it doesn’t need to win here. This one goes to The Duchess.

Best Directing
Rob says: Slumdog Millionaire
Rob’s readers say: Slumdog Millionaire
Director and picture usually go hand-in-hand. Slumdog will take Best Picture, and I find it extremely likely that Danny Boyle will win this as well. There’s a slim chance the category could go to Milk, but I think that the wins Milk will net in Screenplay (and potentially Actor) will be the extent of its success.

Best Documentary, Feature
Rob says: Man on Wire
Rob’s readers say: Man on Wire
It’s had the biggest Oscar campaign and the most pre-Oscars discussion. I think much of the Academy votes along with what they think the rest of the Academy will vote in this category. Consequently, Man on Wire will likely win.

Best Documentary, Short
Rob says:
The Witness – From the Balcony of Room 306
Rob’s readers say: The Witness – From the Balcony of Room 306
I haven’t seen any of the films in this category, so I’m taking the easy road here and going with my readers on this one.

Best Film Editing
Rob says:
Slumdog Millionaire
Rob’s readers say: Slumdog Millionaire
I think this one will be part of Slumdog’s big sweep. If it doesn’t, it will go to The Dark Knight.

Best Foreign Language Film
Rob says:
Waltz with Bashir
Rob’s readers say: Waltz with Bashir
Without knowing much about the films in this category, either, I’d say this is a pretty safe bet as well.

Best Makeup
Rob says:
The Curious Case of Benjamin Button
Rob’s readers say: The Curious Case of Benjamin Button
The Academy wants to do something with Benjamin Button, as evidenced by its large number of nominations, but since it’s not going to win the biggest categories, it has to win the ones most relevant to the film itself. I think that giving this movie the award for Best Makeup is somewhat misguided, as I think Benjamin Button is more of an accomplishment in Visual Effects, but I don’t think many of the voters quite know whether it’s more a makeup thing or a CGI thing, so they’ll give it both.

Best Original Score
Rob says:
Slumdog Millionaire
Rob’s readers say: Slumdog Millionaire
So many of the rave reviews about this movie center around its music, both the songs and the score. I think it will take this category fairly easily.

Best Original Song
Rob says:
“Jai Ho” from Slumdog Millionaire
Rob’s readers say: “Jai Ho” from Slumdog Millionaire
Not only do I think this song will win, I’m kind of excited for it to win. It’s a different song than any other that’s been nominated in this category before. Every so often, something comes along to change the perception of what an Oscar-worthy song will be. The only way it might not win is if its votes get canceled out by the votes for O Saya, also from Slumdog Millionaire, in which case Down to Earth from WALL-E would win by default. But I think the Academy wants Slumdog to win this category, and there’s enough of a consensus that Jai Ho is the song to take it.

Best Picture
Rob says:
Slumdog Millionaire
Rob’s readers say: Slumdog Millionaire
If you’d have asked me when the nominations were first announced, I’d have gone with Milk. But there has been so much buzz about Slumdog, and everyone loves an underdog. Everyone’s pulling for Slumdog to take Best Picture, and I think it will happen.

Best Short Film, Animated
Rob says:
Presto
Rob’s readers say: Presto

Embarrassingly, I’ve seen none of the films in either of the Short Film categories. I’ll go with my readers on these.

Best Short Film, Live Action
Rob says:
Spielzeugland (Toyland)
Rob’s readers say: Spielzeugland (Toyland)
See comments in previous category.

Best Sound Editing
Rob says:
The Dark Knight
Rob’s readers say: The Dark Knight
There’s a chance this could go to WALL-E, but I think Hollywood feels like it needs to acknowledge The Dark Knight as a movie apart from just Heath Ledger’s performance. I think it will take both this and the Sound Mixing categories.

Best Sound Mixing
Rob says:
The Dark Knight
Rob’s readers say: The Dark Knight
See comments on the previous category.

Best Visual Effects
Rob says:
The Curious Case of Benjamin Button
Rob’s readers say: The Curious Case of Benjamin Button
This is the category where Benjamin Button most deserves a win. It really represents a significant accomplishments in the visual effects field and will win the Oscar accordingly.

Best Screenplay, Adapted
Rob says:
Slumdog Millionaire
Rob’s readers say: Slumdog Millionaire
There are some excellent nominees in this category, and I think the Oscar could very deservedly go to The Reader or Doubt. But I think that, despite Slumdog’s likelihood to win big, there are more than a few people afraid that it could lose to Milk for Best Picture, so they want to make sure that Slumdog wins this category.

Best Screenplay, Original
Rob says:
Milk
Rob’s readers say: Milk
If I could give this award personally, it would go to the witty and brilliant In Bruges. But since Slumdog Millionaire can’t be nominated in this category, it will undoubtedly go to Milk.





Rob’s Oscar Winner Prediction Contest

19 02 2009

One of my favorite television events of the year is the Academy Awards, informally known as The Oscars. I love the whole event — the red carpet arrivals, the presenters, the acceptance speeches, and the musical performances.

When I lived in Colorado, I used to host some sort of annual Oscars party.  None of my friends ever get into it quite like I do, but they love just about any excuse for a party. This year, however, now living in the remote forest outside of Gallup, New Mexico, I have neither the venue to host nor the guest list to invite.

My favorite part of the party is having a “Predict the Winners” contest. This year, in lieu of an actual party, I’ve decided to hold the contest on my blog. The winner receives two AMC movie gift certificates. These are each good for one admission at any AMC theater in the United States for any film showing, including special engagements, with no date or time restrictions and no expiration date.

Here’s how to play, and the rules of my contest:

  1. Copy the nominee list below and paste it as a comment on this blog entry. Erase all but one nominee in each category, leaving the nominee you think will win in each category. (Remember, this is “pick who you THINK will win,” not “pick who you WANT to win.)
  2. Entries must be received by 12:00pm (noon) MST on Sunday, February 22, 2009. Late entries don’t count.
  3. The person who correctly predicts the most Oscar winners correctly will win the prize.
  4. In the event of a tie, the winner will be the person who submitted their entry the earliest.
  5. If you leave more than one nominee in a category, your guess for that category doesn’t count.
  6. Anybody can play. You don’t have to know me to participate. Tell your friends.
  7. Only one entry per person, and no changing your entry after it’s submitted.
  8. Make sure you put a valid email address in the appropriate field so I have a way to contact you to get your address in case you win.
  9. I reserve the right to add or modify the rules, and I am the sole judge in determining the winner.
  10. I also reserve the right to substitute prizes if necessary. Prize will be sent via USPS first-class mail.

Ready to play? Here’s the list of nominees, as obtained from Oscar.com:

Best Leading Actor: 1) Richard Jenkins in The Visitor, 2) Frank Langella in Frost/Nixon, 3) Sean Penn in Milk, 4) Brad Pitt in The Curious Case of Benjamin Button 5) Mickey Rourke in The Wrestler

Best Supporting Actor: 1) Josh Brolin in Milk, 2) Robert Downey Jr. in Tropic Thunder, 3) Philip Seymour Hoffman in Doubt, 4) Heath Ledger in The Dark Knight, 5) Michael Shannon in Revolutionary Road

Best Leading Actress: 1) Anne Hathaway in Rachel Getting Married, 2) Angelina Jolie in Changeling, 3) Melissa Leo in Frozen River, 4) Meryl Streep in Doubt, 5) Kate Winslet in The Reader

Best Supporting Actress: 1) Amy Adams in Doubt, 2) Penelope Cruz in Vicky Cristina Barcelona, 3) Viola Davis in Doubt, 4) Taraji P. Henson in The Curious Case of Benjamin Button, 5) Marisa Tomei in The Wrestler

Best Animated Feature: 1) Bolt, 2) Kung-Fu Panda, 3) WALL-E

Best Art Direction: 1) Changeling, 2) The Curious Case of Benjamin Button, 3) The Dark Knight, 4) The Duchess, 5) Revolutionary Road

Best Cinematography: 1) Changeling, 2) The Curious Case of Benjamin Button, 3) The Dark Knight, 4) The Reader, 5) Slumdog Millionaire

Best Costume Design: 1) Australia, 2) The Curious Case of Benjamin Button, 3) The Duchess, 4) Milk, 5) Revolutionary Road

Best Directing: 1) The Curious Case of Benjamin Button, 2) Frost/Nixon, 3) Milk, 4) The Reader, 5) Slumdog Millionaire

Best Documentary Feature: 1) The Betrayal (Nerakhoon), 2) Encounters at the End of the World, 3) The Garden, 4) Man on Wire, 5) Trouble the Water

Best Documentary Short: 1) The Conscience of Nhem En, 2) The Final Inch, 3) Smile Pinki, 4) The Witness – From the Balcony of Room 306

Best Film Editing: 1) The Curious Case of Benjamin Button, 2) The Dark Knight, 3) Frost/Nixon, 4) Milk, 5) Slumdog Millionaire

Best Foreign Language Film: 1) The Baader Meinhof Complex, 2) The Class, 3) Departures, 4) Revanche, 5) Waltz with Bashir

Best Makeup: 1) The Curious Case of Benjamin Button, 2) The Dark Knight, 3) Hellboy II: The Golden Army

Best Original Score: 1) The Curious Case of Benjamin Button, 2) Defiance, 3) Milk, 4) Slumdog Millionaire, 5) WALL-E

Best Original Song: 1) “Down to Earth” from WALL-E, 2) “Jai Ho” from Slumdog Millionaire, 3) “O Saya” from Slumdog Millionaire

Best Picture: 1) The Curious Case of Benjamin Button, 2) Frost/Nixon, 3) Milk, 4) The Reader, 5) Slumdog Millionaire

Best Short Film, Animated: 1) La Maison en Petits Cubes, 2) Lavatory – Lovestory, 3) Oktapodi, 4) Presto, 5) This Way Up

Best Short Film, Live Action: 1) Auf der Strecke (On the Line), 2) Manon on the Asphalt, 3) New Boy, 4) The Pig, 5) Spielzeugland (Toyland)

Best Sound Editing: 1) The Dark Knight, 2) Iron Man, 3) Slumdog Millionaire, 4) WALL-E, 5) Wanted

Best Sound Mixing: 1) The Curious Case of Benjamin Button, 2) The Dark Knight, 3) Slumdog Millionaire, 4) WALL-E, 5) Wanted

Best Visual Effects: 1) The Curious Case of Benjamin Button, 2) The Dark Knight, 3) Iron Man

Best Screenplay, Adapted: 1) The Curious Case of Benjamin Button, 2) Doubt, 3) Frost/Nixon, 4) The Reader, 5) Slumdog Millionaire

Best Screenplay, Original: 1) Frozen River, 2) Happy-Go-Lucky, 3) In Bruges, 4) Milk, 5) WALL-E





Two Discoveries

19 02 2009

I made two incredible discoveries this week, both of which involve the grocery store Safeway.

The first discovery was that there is, in fact, a place to get sushi in Gallup. This is a huge deal. Up to this point, I have been thinking the absence of sushi is one of the reasons I could never stay in Gallup forever. This week, I found it at Safeway. Now, do keep in mind that grocery store sushi is kind of like the equivalent of getting a steak at the Golden Corral versus a steak at a real steakhouse. But the point is that when you’ve lived for nine months in a town completely devoid of one of your favorite foods, even a cheap imitation is extremely exciting. The grocery store sushi is strictly limited to California Rolls, which contain no raw fish but rather fully-cooked imitation crab, so there’s not really a freshness issue. But just having access to the magical combination of seafood, sushi rice and seaweed is beyond exciting to me.

The second discovery came on the same trip to Safeway. They’re in the middle of remodeling the store. They had cleared out a large space along the front wall of the store. I assumed they were putting in a supermarket branch for a bank, but it’s so much better than that. This week, they put up the sign, and immediately I could taste the Caramel Frappuccinos and Toffee Nut Lattes.

That’s right, folks. On March 23, 2009, inside the Safeway on Highway 602, Gallup will celebrate the opening of its very first… Starbucks.





Breathing

11 02 2009

Today we went out to lunch to celebrate Granny’s birthday. Also joining was the always-enjoyable Anast family, and I sat at the end of the table with Joe (age 7) and Rysha (age 5). Those two kids make for rather entertaining lunch conversation.

One part of our discussion was so funny I told Joe I was going to blog about it later. Somehow, he got on the topic of whether it’s easier to breathe through your nose, your mouth, or a combination of the two. Here’s a quick snippet of that dialogue.

Joe: One time, I breathed only through my nose for, like, three hours.

Me: Really?

Joe: Yeah. It was awful!





Bed

9 02 2009

For the past eight months, we’ve had to live without the comfort of our own bed.

This is especially horrible because I really love our bed. It is, in fact, my very favorite of all the wedding presents we received. My father-in-law, a truly gifted artist, blacksmithed the gorgeous bedframe for us, then he and my mother-in-law gave us an very comfortable pillow-top mattress and matching box spring as well. It’s amazing to have a bed on which I am practically guaranteed a good night’s sleep. For seven years, we enjoyed this wonderful bed.

When we moved out here, our bed wasn’t able to come along with us. We traveled to our new home in a minivan piled high with essentials. A metal bedframe, mattress and box spring would have had no place to travel. They went into our storage unit in Colorado instead. When we arrived here, we began using the mattress from the sleeper sofa on the ground floor of the Straw Bale House. While I’m thankful that it’s there, it is a decidedly uncomfortable mattress. I cursed it repeatedly, while inwardly realizing it was still better than sleeping on the floor.

My parents came for a visit after we’d been here a few months. They upgraded us to air mattresses. Without those, I don’t think my wife would have got an ounce of sleep during her third trimester of pregnancy. The air mattress was much more comfortable than the sleeper sofa mattress, but presented its own unique set of challenges: the potential for air leaks, the need to inflate the mattress nightly, and loud squeaks every time one of us rolled over.

When we went back to Denver in December, I decided that I was going to get our bed out of storage and back to the Straw Bale House, or else die in the process. We rented a trailer and brought the bed to New Mexico. When we arrived, we returned to nearly four feet of snow and were never able to get the trailer closer than a mile from the house. After weeks of shoveling snow and mud, we were (with much difficulty) finally able to empty the contents of the trailer into the Suburban and transport them the remaining mile to the Strob. The bed, too large to fit in the Suburban, was tied securely to the roof and driven the rest of the way in.

The contents of the trailer went in the upstairs of the Strob where we used to sleep. With so many boxes, bags and stacks of belongings, there was nowhere to set up the bed. It sat propped up in the back of the room, waiting to be reassembled.

Last week, I decided the time had come. I worked the better part of a day on consolidating space in the upstairs. I managed to get everything into one half of the upstairs and to clear the other half into bedroom space once again, while still managing to leave enough of an aisle to get inside. We hunted through the items we brought back and found the bags with the beautiful bedset and pillows we bought each other a couple of anniversaries ago. Finally, it was assembled.

We’ve now had a few nights to sleep in our own bed, and it’s every bit as wonderful as I remembered. I sleep more soundly and get more rest in the same amount of time. It’s just one piece that makes this place a little more like home.

Bed





Worst Toy Ever

7 02 2009

Aidan brought home the worst toy ever.

We splurged and went to McDonald’s last weekend. While playing at the indoor Playland, some little boy gave Aidan a toy and told to keep it. It’s a little cell phone with stickers for Spider-Man 3. If I had heard the noises this phone made before the other little boy had left, I would have made Aidan give it back.

It’s possibly the most obnoxious thing I have ever heard in my life. Actually, it’s not so bad at first. It rings, then a female voice says something I can’t understand. Then it rings again and a dog barks. And then… oh, man oh man, and then! It plays a song, and this particular sounds like a Japanese anime video cassette being eaten by the VCR. I have no idea for the life of me what these noises have to do with Spider-Man 3 (after the first two movies, I lost interest) but that song is the most annoying little earworm I’ve ever had the misfortune of overhearing.

I decided that simply describing it wasn’t going to do this toy adequate justice. I have included, for your viewing enjoyment, a 30-second video clip I took this morning so I could share the magic of this toy with you. There’s nothing wrong with the audio, either. the toy really sounds like this.

Hope you enjoy.





Orphans

28 01 2009

It’s been a long time coming, but I’m finally posting an original recording to my blog. After seven long months in which I have done very little in the way of creative expression, particularly musical, I finally have something to share.

I’ve had orphans on my mind thanks to some thought-provoking blog reads. There are so many children in the world desperate for a family. My heart goes out to them, and my hat is off to those who find it in their hearts to adopt these children into their families.

While thinking along these lines, one song in particular always comes to mind. It’s mostly because I’m a sucker for Disney movies and their soundtracks. The song is from the movie “The Rescuers.” It’s the theme song for Penny, an orphan girl in need of being rescued. How many children are out there hoping, praying, waiting for someone to love them?

I finally sat down to play and record it, and hopefully I manage to post it on my blog correctly. The arrangement is original.  (For any techie geeks interested, I record on an M-Audio Ozonic keyboard that interfaces via Firewire to a Sony Vaio PC. I do the recording and mixing in Reason 3.0. It’s a three part process – grand piano, then strings, then synth.)


Someone’s Waiting for You

by Carol Connors, Sammy Fain, and Ayn Robbins

Be brave, little one
Make a wish for each sad little tear
Hold your head up though no one is near
Someone’s waiting for you

Don’t cry, little one
There’ll be a smile where a frown used to be
You’ll be part of the love that you see
Someone’s waiting for you

Always keep a little prayer in your pocket
And you’re sure to see the light
Soon there’ll be joy and happiness
And your little world will be bright

Have faith, little one
‘Til your hopes and your wishes come true
You must try to be brave, little one
Someone’s waiting to love you

If you’d like to download an MP3 version of this recording, you can find it here: http://www.rlserver.com/someones-waiting.mp3





Telephone Rules of Engagement

27 01 2009

I think I’ve turned into a phone snob.

I pride myself on not having owned a cell phone for a few years now. While I dislike Qwest as a company, I’m amused by their latest ads declaring, “Long live the land line,” where kids find themselves enthralled by a phone that never needs charging and that doesn’t have limited minutes. While there are definitely times when having a cell phone makes more sense (we did borrow a phone in case of a roadside emergency on our recent trip) I’m usually glad to be free of having one. Plus, I live in a place where cell phone reception is poor.

When I did have a cell phone, I found myself not answering it most of the time. Even if the caller was someone with whom I wanted to speak, it was usually an inopportune moment. I like talking on the phone, but only if my environment is noise- and distraction-free. This invariably led to the complaint, “Why don’t you ever answer your cell phone?” to which I would usually reply, “You misunderstand; my cell phone is for MY convenience, not yours.”

Now, blissfully rid of the cell phone, I suddenly find myself dealing with the reality that, in a town like Pine Haven, literally any phone call I might want to make (outside of Pine Haven, where I know virtually no one) is going to ring up a long distance bill. I’ve figured out how to send text messages from email, and so usually, if I need to reach a family member, I send a text to their cell phone (they all live on their phones) and ask them to call me since they get free long distance.

We bought an answering machine a while back. It was the cheapest one at Wal-Mart, ringing in at something like $14.95. It seems a rather archaic piece of equipment since everyone nowadays uses voicemail, but a landline seems pretty archaic itself.

Since bringing the answering machine home, I am realizing that I now revert to my old telephone rules of engagement. Though I’m home a lot, the answering machine always screens my calls. There’s no Caller ID here, so I listen to the start of each message to hear who’s calling, and then make a snap judgement whether to answer or not. If it’s family calling and I’m at home, I almost always answer to avoid having to text them later. If it’s a sales call, let them talk to the tape. I don’t have money to spend on anything, I don’t care what they’re selling.

But I think I’m the strangest when listening to messages left while I was away. When I had a cell phone, I was always careful to specify in my greeting to leave a “detailed message,” and I meant it. When someone simply says, “Hi, this is So-and-So, call me back,” that gives me no information whatsoever. So many questions come to mind. If a person doesn’t tell me the purpose for their call, I have no way to evaluate the call’s importance to me personally. Sure, maybe they just wanted to chat. But it could be so much worse. They might be calling to invite me to an Amway meeting. They might need help moving. How would I know? I can’t tell if it’s a phone call I didn’t want to miss or if it’s a phone call I would have avoided like the plague.

I mentioned to Liesl’s cousin Gabe this past weekend. He laughed and observed that his greeting should say something to the effect of, “Don’t bother leaving a message, because I’ll never hear it anyway.”

Different strokes for different folks, I guess.





Dinner

26 01 2009

Today is Kaylynn’s third birthday. While sitting around the dinner table tonight, Liesl said, “I think we’ll start a new tradition on Ryan’s birthday. When it’s your birthday, you get to pick what we have for dinner.” This suggestion was met with wide eyes and smiles from all of the children.

I said to Ryan, “What will you pick for your birthday dinner?” Without a second’s hesitation, she replied, “Steak.”

Smart girl, that one.